Man of the Week: Terry Kennedy

The title man of the week, goes to Mr Extremely Easy on the Eye, Terry Kennedy. A soon to be reality star and multitalented pro skateboarder who has been endorsed by the likes of SUPRA and BOOST Mobile, he is the type you'd be proud to call your 'other'. I guess Angela Simmons is a lucky lady!

Discipline or Abuse (Viewers Discretion Advised)?

Check this video out where a mother takes extreme measures to discipline her child.



I could even watch the whole thing. Why be a parent if you have to take to such extreme measures to keep your child in line?

What say you? Discipline or abuse?

LOL of the day: Caption This Pic

British Boyband JLS are the face of durex condoms, but it has to be seen to be believed. Presenting Exhibit A:

Other than the green pack, all the other ones would make my dick shrivel! If you had to pick a pack, which one would you buy?

A-List Episode 1: Codeword Delicious

Check out episode 1 of new flagship show A-List on LOGO TV. Think the male take of the Real Housewives franchise. (Readers outside the US I guess you need to get your proxy on!). Peep it below:










What did you think?

My 2 Pence: Eddie Long Scandal

I'm sure everyone and their mother has heard about the Eddie Long scandal involving boys allegedly being inappropriately abused.

My problem with the whole thing is the abuse of authority. Using your role to gain inappropriate access to these guys minds. If you respect an individual as a leader, in the back of your mind its almost as you can transfer control. If you went to the doctor and the doctor told you that you had to get your leg cut off because of internal complications, would you challenge his diagnosis? If a psychiatrist told you that you were bipolar and that you had to take meds daily would you protest? Most likely not because of the respect you have for their role.

As a leader and a figure to people, you draw the lines and you stay on your side of the boundaries.

Reports and court documents suggests these guys saw him as a father figure yet he supposedly was plying them with materialism which as a teen is as attractive as flies to shit. Buying them cars, giving them an allowance, going out to dinner in fancy restaurants; all with money from unassuming church goers. All this to get them open and coupled with them seeing him as 'daddy' given they were from single parent households, these teens probably have a fucked up lust complex when forming relationships with older guys in high positions. Love for 'family' should never be blurred with the love for a partner.

I believe all the victims are telling the truth given the available info and hope that justice is served.


What are your thoughts on the scandal?

Ever Wonder What Being In The Life Was Like 40 Years ago?

Ever wondered what life was like being in the life 40 years ago? Queue the video tape!:



Talk about camp affair (Chicago Pride apparently)! Hilarious all the same and the black guy on the float was a good look.

Appreciate the fact that you can live your life, whereas other can't live theirs

Check out this interesting short by a French photographer who reached out to gay folk via the web living in countries where being gay is illegal and asked them for a photo and insight into life on a daily:



Its sad that in 2010, there is still a lot of hate in the World towards things that people simply need to take the time to understand.

Kelsey must have really felt like shit that day...

Poor her.

Antoine Sits Down With...

Antoine Dodson recently sat down with news anchor Katie Couric to discuss his viral popularity. Peep the video below:

Gay Student Commits Suicide After Roomate's 'American Pie' Stunt

Tyler Clementi, above, is thought to have committed suicide, days after video of him was


secretly webcast on the Internet. Clementi's roommate, Dharun Ravi, center, and another

classmate, Molly Wei, have been charged in the case.



It’s a tragic technological story heard round the world — a college freshman’s Webcam spying leading to a suicidal jump from the George Washington Bridge. Dharun Ravi, a freshman at Rutgers University, used his Macbook to stream video of his gay roommate having “a sexual encounter” in their room on September 19. The roommate, Tyler Clementi, did not know that he was being watched or taped. Sadly, he apparently did not notice the green light on Ravi’s laptop camera turn on when Ravi activated it from another computer in friend Molly Wei’s room across the hall.

Ravi invited other friends to watch the stream on iChat, and planned a second viewing on September 21st when Clementi again indicated he’d like the room to himself for a few hours, tweeting that day, “Anyone with iChat, I dare you to video chat me between the hours of 9:30 and 12. Yes it’s happening again.” It appears from a gay message forum that Clementi was already on to his roommate by that time.

The New Jersey police have charged Ravi (and Wei) with criminal invasion of privacy, which carries a maximum sentence of five years in prison according to the New York Times, and a possible $30,000 fine according to the New Jersey criminal code. As my colleague Andy Greenberg points out, some of the same technologies that facilitated Ravi’s invasion of Clementi’s privacy will now help prove his guilt in the case — Ravi’s Twitter feed. Ravi deleted it, but police can get it from Twitter, or Google cache, or one of the Twitter tracking sites like Topsy. As I’ve said before, deletion on the Internet is futile.

Clementi also has a digital trail on the Internet, and it appears that he knew his roommate had filmed him after the first September 19th incident.



A month-old tweet from Ravi indicates he discovered his roommate’s sexuality based on comments Clementi made on a gay message forum. Ravi tweeted on August 22, “Found out my roommate is gay,” and linked to a post he said was Clementi’s on JustUsBoys. It’s the same forum that Clementi appears to have turned to after discovering he’d been spied on. As Gawker noted, a user on the forum by the name of “cit2mo” posted a thread “college roommate spying…..” on September 21 at 7:22 a.m.

so the other night i had a guy over. I had talked to my roommate that afternoon and he had said it would be fine w/him. I checked his twitter today. he tweeted that I was using the room (which is obnoxious enough), AND that he went into somebody else’s room and remotely turned on his webcam and saw me making out with a guy. given the angle of the webcam I can be confident that that was all he could have seen.

so my question is what next?

I could just be more careful next time…make sure to turn the cam away…

buttt…

I’m kinda pissed at him (rightfully so I think, no?)

and idk…if I could…it would be nice to get him in trouble

but idk if I have enough to get him in trouble, i mean…he never saw anything pornographic…he never recorded anything…

I feel like the only thing the school might do is find me another roommate, probably with me moving out…and i’d probably just end up with somebody worse than him….I mean aside from being an asshole from time to time, he’s a pretty decent roommate…

the other thing is I that don’t wanna report him and then end up with nothing happening except him getting pissed at me….



Other users advised him to report it to the school and make sure his roommate’s computer was closed during future encounters. Cit2mo replied:

I feel like it was “look at what a fag my roommate is” –other people have commented on his profile with things like “how did you manage to go back in there?” “are you ok?”

and the fact that the people he was with saw my making out with a guy as the scandal whereas i mean come on…he was SPYING ON ME….do they see nothing wrong with this?

unsettling to say the least….

so I decided to fill out the room change request form….its not guaranteed that you get a change…and i don’t have to switch if I change my mind or work things out over the next week (they won’t start filling requests until next week)…but I figure I might as well as see what they can offer me….



More users advised him of the illegality of this video voyeurism. A famous case of this, of course, is that of Erin Andrews. The man who made peephole videos of her undressing was ultimately sentenced to 30 months in prison. Cit2mo responds:

oh yah, on the school website it says recording people where there is an expectation of privacy (bathroom bedroom etc) without the consent of everyone involved could….COULD…..result in being expelled

the only things is…there are too many ‘could’s ….the fact that he didn’t ACTUALLY record me (to my knowledge) and the fact that the school really prolly won’t do much of anything….

but anyway, i’ll be talking to my RA later today for sure…..

and yah, revenge never ends well for me, as much as I would love to pour pink paint all over his stuff…..that would just let him win…..



Cit2mo did end up going to the RA after Ravi’s tweet on September 21st:

so I wanted to have the guy over again.

I texted roomie around 7 asking for the room later tonight and he said it was fine.

when I got back to the room I instantly noticed he had turned the webcam toward my bed. And he had posted online again….saying….”anyone want a free show just video chat me tonight”…or something similar to that….

soooo after that…..

I ran to the nearest RA and set this thing in motion…..

we’ll see what happens……

I haven’t even seen my roommate since sunday when i was asking for the room the first time…and him doing it again just set me off….so talking to him just didn’t seem like an option….

meanwhile I turned off and unplugged his computer, went crazy looking for other hidden cams….and then had a great time.



Cit2mo’s last posting to the site on the morning of September 22nd indicates that he emailed an RA a paragraph about what had happened. Though he seemed calm and collected in his postings to JustUsBoys, that night, he posted “Jumping off the gw bridge sorry” to his Facebook, and committed suicide.

These digital trails may answer questions that could not be answered otherwise. A big question now is why Clementi’s resident advisor did not get Clementi moved out of that room immediately.

In addition to the criminal charges arising from this, there will be civil lawsuits. Rutgers University may find itself the target of a civil lawsuit. And Clementi’s family and perhaps Clementi’s unnamed romantic partner of September 19 will surely sue Ravi, and perhaps Wei, for invasion of privacy. In a similar case in Kansas, a man was ordered to pay $55,000 after distributing naked photos of his ex-girlfriend via email. The claims were invasion of privacy and infliction of severe emotional distress.

Another case that comes to mind involving Webcam spying and schools is the famous case out of Philadelphia, where a high school handed out laptops and then activated cameras remotely without informing the students using them. In that case, prosecutors dropped the criminal charges, finding no criminal intent in the “spying.” Ravi will not likely be so lucky.
 
 
My 2 Pence: I think that no matter how deep the shame. suicide is not a option. This just puts into perspective how paranoia about how society will label you for subscribing to a lifestyle that is widely not accepted can eat at you. In any case RIP.

City Gym Boys: UK Chapter

Anyone who appreciates the male physique will know about the City Gym Boys. It recently came to my attention that there is actually a UK chapter. Check them out in the videos below:








Nigerican accents aside, not bad!

x2 Mixtape Drop: Bryn't - Porn Star / Porn Star II

Gay Rapper Bryn't is currently readying material for his forthcoming album Bryn't Park out in Quarter 1 2011.

In the meantime, if you are unfamiliar with him or his work, add his mixtapes Porn Star and Porn Star II to your ipod collection and check out his myspace.

Being the kind of guy I am, I wasn't big on gay music because the quality just seems to be all over the place. Bryn't however has got an ill ability to tell a story and I guess that is what won me over.

Antoine Moves Himself And Family Out Of The Alabama Projects

Remember Antoine Dodson? Well according to the good folk over at US Weekly, the viral sensation has made enough money from his single 'The Intruder Song, to move out of the Projects and into a new build!

I for one am glad he was smart enough to turn the situation into something positive for him and his family.

If You Needed Any Further Proof That Crack Is Wack

Just peep this:



*Sidenote = WTF is leaking from him as he rolls in the road?

LMAO of the day: Boy puts his take on NIkki's Verse on cam

Check out this guy's take on Nikki Minaj's verse from Kanye's Monster



LOL! A little eccentric but dude killed it! Nikki needs to gleen this should there ever be an official video made.