LOL of The Day: Timaya Speaking Out On Haters

Check out this hilarious clip by one of my favorite youtubers Timaya, talking abouthaving to deal with a hater on the bus. Humor aside, the video raises some really good points. Check it out below:

When Did This Happen?

I've been hearing all kinds of madness has been going on in Eastenders lately, but I thought that Christian and Syed were done for. Guess I need to watch the Sunday catch up because by the looks of it I was wrong! Check out the clip below:

Man of the Week: @TysonKobiethe1

Man of the Week goes to Tyson Kobie. The Dawgpound USA Porn Star knows how to turn up the heat!

Check out his blog here .

"I'll see you later"

So earlier this week I met up with a guy I've been getting to know over the last couple weeks. Good looking, wicked sexual imagination, but the paranoia that I mention in a previous post about the mindset. Basically he views me not a TJ, down to earth, chilled and laid back and on the path to getting goals accompolished. But simply an easy on the eye link, who mentally he can relate to, possibly 'do a ting' with, then chuck away the disposable pay as you go sim card so there is no further means of communication. I get the nut, He gets the nut, the guilt kicks in and he can't reconcile the urge to satisfy a need that he has been brought up to despise with all that he is.

If you are cool with that then its all systems go, and in this case that is what it was. After all I needed a nut and I'd established enough to know that his issues aside he had a good heart, even if it was for one night only.



So the scene was set. He scooped me up from my area in a neutral spot. We drove for about 20 minutes until we reached our destination. Pulled up in a waitrose carpark after hours. I looked him in the eye with a wicked smile on my face and said "So what's good?" to my surprise he interlocked his hand with mine and gave me a look of vulnerability and fear but at the same time, his trust to take things to the next level. He then leaned for the kiss and damn it was a powerful one. The type that feels so right.

 This was playing in the background:



The next hour was spent just blessing each other and making each other feel good in the back seat. He taught me a thing or two also. After we both nutted and got clean, we sat in the back seat for 15 minutes in silent bliss. Whatever was going on in his life at this moment didn't matter and likewise the same with me. In an ideal world he'd be my type.

On the journey back he was talking about having work the next day and hIS mum probably being worried about him being out the house for so long. I laughed at the thought of hitting 22 and still having a curfew. When got to my drop off spot, he said "I'll see you later" and as much as I didn't want to say it, my response was "Let's not kid ourselves, no you won't". I stepped out and headed home. He tooted his horn as he pulled away.

True to form I called him a couple of days later only to hear the T-mobile automated message "The number you have dialled has not been recognised, please check the number and try again."

LOL of the Day: Caption This Pic

Check out this pic that is begging for caption. What caption would you give it?

Classic Movie: My Beautiful Laundrette

Check out this critically acclaimed movie that I discovered, starring Daniel Day Lewis. Crazy to think that I wasn't even born when this movie came out in 1985. The movie caught a lot of slack for being risque in its time. Enjoy it while its up!

My 2 Pence: Let's Talk Bisexuals

So Bisexuals are attracted to women and men, best of both worlds and all that. Girls see them as greedy and selfish and guys see them as at a stop on the road to being gay. People forget though that on a simple level both men and women can get their dick hard. But as with being straight and being gay you are not attracted to everyone - furthermore, its more about about a balance between personality and looks.

Therefore it could be that a guy is more proactive in reaching out to guys as there are more variety in the life that tickle his fancy but not discounting the fact that should he come across the right girl he would happily hit and run or go steady depending on what the case might be.

Some people worry that being with a bisexual is to be with someone who is unsure of who they are. I think that's a load of shit to be honest. Forgetting the fact that they are attracted to both sexes, when a bisexual finds that someone, gender becomes irrelevant, as its who you are as a person that will maintain his interest.

As for the whole DL thing, I think there is no such thing. Cheating and having unsafe sex is what puts people at risk period and that you can't put a sexuality on. I think that term is one born out of hate and ignorance. If you are having casual relations with men and women and both parties are playing it safe and getting regularly checked out then what's the issue?

Not saying that outlook is for me, but its something to think about all the same.

*Gets off soapbox

Personal Responsibility

I stumbled across this viral campaign which is pretty much in the same vain as the last post. My opinion? Now this is how you combine humor and a shoestring budget to convey a message that sticks!

I know. Do you know?

Check out this viral campaign to generate awareness. Interesting, though the fellas should have been fresher faced and not these dead beat oldies.

On the subject, even if I'm not having sex and just getting some good head from a regular link, I still go clinic every three months for my own peace of mind. I think everyone getting theirs should take the responsibility for themselves that goes along with it.

*Jumps off soapbox

What's in a name... of a gay street?

When I was little, whenever I heard adults use the word 'Soho' it usually followed with the word 'poofter' 'gaylord' 'battyman'. So when I started experiences new sensations, partly because of the fear of seeing somebody that knew me or my members of my family and reporting my whereabouts and company I was keeping, going to Gay friendly bars clubs and restaurants is completely off limits. Kryptonite if you wanna look at it like that.

Then there was Diego;

South American consultant in his late 20s he had it all: looks, charm and good conversation so the scene was set. Nandos Baker St. neutral to him and me. Chemistry was there, conversation was chill so once we were once he suggested we go to a bar. In my mind I was thinking oh jheeze! the irony being the setting was the dreaded location I'd feared for the longest. SOHO.

Do I make my excuses and leave or, throw caution to the wind and run with it?

To  be continued...

Guys speaking out on E-Hate

Check out these guys giving their 2 pence on people clowning on their character. They had some slick one-liners I must say! Check it out:



Thoughts?

Relationships: Get into them blind for the thrill of the rollercoaster?

Relationships: when you are in them they are hard work and you wish that life was a little less complicated and when you are not in one then your mind works overtime on thoughts dancing around the theme of insecurity. What if 'he' never happens? Why aren't situations popping off in the way that they used to?

The real question is who are you and what are you trying to build? Think about it for a second. Are you the type to jump into situations purely on how you feel, or do you have the self control to wait it out until the honeymoon period is over to really gage what Mr man is about before taking things to the next level.

Too many times, people have this idea that they have to run into situations with a sense of urgency like its a once in a lifetime type deal when really, reacting in this way recipe for shit to be short lived. On the road to happiness you are gonna encounter some shady characters but its these experiences that shape us as people.

At the end of the day, no-one wants to be made to look a fool.

I remember about a month ago I went to a 'team chico' house party in South London. Eye candy was there in force. Must have stepped to one guy I was feeling on a contextual level, asking if he was having a good time and I was taken aback by how well mannered he was. He then introduced himself and his boy. At this point I had nothing but admiration for them. A good looking educated guy, black, masculine, secure in his looks and sexuality and in a healthy relationship with his equal who was trusting enough to let his boy converse with someone showing interest without becoming insecure; The standard we should hold for ourselves and look for in others!

I guess the point I'm making is that yeah the rollercoaster of a new interest is a thrill, but imagine how much more you'd appreciate it more if you took the time to look into its blueprint?

-END-

LOL of the Day: A shave u eyebrow like Sharon dem!

Check out this diss video by Ce'cile. The song sees her speaking out against pretty boys. I swear the lyrics made my sides hurt!

Man of The Week: Anthony Woods

This week's man of the week is US Army Veteran and Havard Graduate Anthony Woods. This guy is a triple threat. Built, intelligent and open about who he is and still able to command respect. I think its safe to say that he is the dream other half that everyone aspires to have.

LOL of the day... Have you seen it?

Today's LOL of the day is this poster. Too funny!